It’s not fair to another person to try to “use” them to fill the void/hole in your heart that only GOD was meant to fill. Yes people can love and support you. But it isn’t their job to take the place of “God” in your life. You’ve gotta have your own, personal walk with God because people are imperfect. They cannot be everything that you need 100% of the time, nor is it their job to do so. Let God fill you up and meet your needs first. Then the people who He sends into your life can help to meet you in the “overflow”. (And you can help to pour into them, too!)